One of the most common and harmful ways children hurt one another is through gossip.

Gossip is a form of social bullying. It can happen in person or online, and it often flies under the radar because it is disguised as conversation or curiosity.

Social bullying damages reputations and relationships. It can look like spreading rumors, encouraging others to exclude someone, sabotaging friendships, or quietly turning peers against a child.

Why Teaching Kids Not to Be an Audience Matters

One of the most effective ways to stop gossip is to stop giving it an audience.

When kids refuse to listen, gossip loses its power. The person initiating it often feels uncomfortable or embarrassed, and the behavior tends to stop.

This matters because children are often more influenced by peer reactions than by adult rules or lectures.

When peers show disinterest in gossip, it sends a strong message that this behavior is not valued.

Why Kids Gossip

Understanding why kids gossip helps adults respon...